Why Does He Fall for One Woman Over Another?

"He has to be 'captivated' by the total package of her...her personality, her brain, her body, her smell, her unknowable, mysterious allure...his brain has to feel he can't live without her...that she must be a part of his future!"


A man falls for a woman because of the way she makes him feel. It's different for each man, depending on his needs. A guy who feels good being in charge will respond to a more docile female, while a guy who hates making decisions will go for a bossy girl. If he needs to feel like crap, he will end up with a woman who will do him the favour of dealing him a load of it. Does he need to feel superior? He will hold out for the insecure mouse. It's about how HE feels when he's with her - if he's getting his emotional needs met, she will look, sound, and smell like a queen. 

He won't necessarily get what he deserves, but he'll get what he needs, whether he realizes it or not. Marriage works when partners recognize the emotional forces that brought them together and are both willing to work onthemselves and the union.

A man loves a woman when he reaches spiritual balance and understands the real meaning of excellence.

love is a seed and when you cultivate it you have to be watering it to prevent it from decay and also to keep it greener and strong.